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Recently, I became aware of the love-making technique called Karezza. The word is Italian for caress. Karezza is defined as a “spiritual way of having sex.” It’s not new age-y even though it sounds like it.

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With Karezza, neither partner has sex with the intent to achieve orgasm. There is no happy ending. It’s described as the “gentle way of sexual intercourse” without having those messy ejaculations. (Bonus: no wet spots)  Otherwise known as blue balls.

The concept was created in 1896 by some Victorian spinster. She probably came up with the idea ’cause back then sex was seen as dirty, and not something to be enjoyed. This could be a way to “clean” it up, make it non-sex and non-fun.

This guy had obviously done the Karezza

But isn’t this what women experience on a regular basis? Not getting enough orgasms? Is this just a clever way to keep women from bitching about not getting the Big O? When your partner isn’t pulling his weight in the lovemaking department he always can claim he was “doing the Karezza.”

Here are some guidelines for achieving a non-happy finish:

  • Smiling, with eye contact
  • Gazing into each others eyes for several moments
  • Synchronised breathing
  • Holding, or spooning, each other in stillness for at least twenty minutes to a half-hour
  • Wordless sounds of contentment and pleasure
  • Stroking, hugging and massaging with intent to comfort, rather than gain something
  • Gently placing your palm over your lover’s genitals with intent to comfort

“Karezza is effortless” describes one male practitioner of it. “All I did was to remain nearly still while engaged in sex and breathed slow, deep breaths. I did nothing else. Anyone could do Karezza.”

Hef is a  Master practitioner of Karezza

Uhm, yeah, cause all you’re doing is laying there breathing. This is what Hugh Hefner does in the sack.

One female practitioner said of Kareeza: “With or without clothes, it feels more like two dolphins frolicking.” 


“Karezza heals and beautifies” proclaims one website about it, as if magical things happen when you take most of your clothes off while groping someone’s crotch. With Karezza, strip clubs are the new hospitals.

This couple died of boredom while doing Karezza


Now that you know about this exciting technique, dear readers:  Go forth and spoon!

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27 Responses »

  1. Mmmm, my girlfriend always want me to finish together, so now I will have to “not finish” together. Something tells me it will be difficult to sell this idea to her.

  2. Love it especially the crack about Hef!

  3. LOL. That’s all I’ve got! haha!

  4. I’ve never read a post about NOT making a woman orgasm. Lol. Thanks for teaching me an excuse. Lol.

  5. If this catches on viagra will be out of style!

  6. The title is so hilarious!!….When it arrived to my email I couldnt wait to read it!! they need to do more,,, that’s right!!

    From your ball’s to her heart jajajaj….definetly it will go to my facebook!!jajajaj

  7. That last photo killed me.
    Can we do our taxes while Karezza-ing? I’d like to discuss the finer details of my menstrual cycle whilst we gently caress. Is it ok to Karezza through a hole in a sheet? Sounds a bit too sexy for my taste.

  8. I flew over to Italy to buy a new Karezza. They salesman said they were pretty good cars but they do not go through tunnels.

  9. Maybe if I’m holding them in my mouth or between my legs as he’s slamming into me, but with no ‘light at the end of the tunnel’….nope

  10. Does sound a little dull, even to an oldish prude like MOI… 😛

  11. Why wouldn’t you want to have an orgasm? This is like.. foreplay with a pause…. pause and then do your best to reach that finish line.

  12. I got frustrated just reading about it.

  13. I presume by the title of the post that you support the breast cum-shot?

    I do too. Closest spot to her heart. 😀

  14. Not sure if this would interest me being that I love to cum.

  15. Lmfao, I’ll pass on this option.

  16. Hahahaha, if someone asked me to do that with him I would laugh and call him lame.


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